Life as it is.

Life?
Has life been treating u bad?
Well I have learned a few things about life as I grow older... let's go straight to what I think I have learned so far; at least from my point of view lah..

1.Whenever you help anyone, never ever expect them to remember it for the rest of their life or even help u back, just be sincere when helping... so hopefully u won't get hurt whenever u think of what u have done for them...

2.Be independent; don't expect people to do things for you, u will get frustrated honey.

3.Friends are friends, they have other things in their minds too, so don't expect them to always be there for you... please understand that..and of course sometimes they also talk about you behind your back whether you like it or not, that's normal especially when they have something against u..

4.People say the truth whenever they are angry, it's just that u r not supposed to hear it that frank, it will be better when they are sane because they will be able to say it in the nicest way possible..harsh world eh? heheheh

5.Whenever you think people don't like you, probably they think u don't like them too, and I think that is because when we think people don't like us, we tend to avoid them and they; by looking at the way u r trying to avoid them will think that u don't like them so that's why it will never be better between u and them, so what can we do? don't bother about what people think of us, just treat everybody with a sincere heart! <<< i know its hard but let's try together! :)

6. Whenever u find a friend who is always afraid of this type of people or that type of people it is because they are that type of people!...well maybe this does not apply to everyone.. there are some who behave like this because they have been treated badly, oh pity them kan?


These are all that I can think of today, maybe if I get to add a few more, I'll make another entry..heheh



p/s: so the moral of the story is? Life it self is not bad, its the people dude!