I'm sorry

I’m sorry.

I’m sorry I don’t have the most perfect skin.
I’m sorry I don’t look like a Victoria Secrets model
I’m sorry I don’t have the best style.
I’m sorry I’m not tall.
I’m sorry I’m not perfectly skinny- 5’7 nor 100 pounds.
I’m sorry I have stretch marks here and there.
I’m sorry I have bad hijab days.
I’m sorry that I’m plain.
I’m sorry my eyebrows aren’t thin and perfectly trimmed.
I’m sorry my face isn’t caked in make-up.
I’m sorry that I can never meet society’s standards.

But you know what?
I don’t need to care about society’s criteria.
I don’t need people to tell me I’m beautiful.
I don’t need compliments to make me feel better.
I don’t need a superficial love that can’t withstand a stretch mark here or chub there.
I don’t need to keep sinking into a never ending pit of low self-esteem.
Because I looked to Allah, and He told me the perfect recipe to be Beautiful.
Not just temporarily, but forever.

“And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace,…” [25:63]

“And [they are] those who, when they spend, do so not excessively or sparingly but are ever, between that, [justly] moderate {25:67]

“And he who repents and does righteousness does indeed turn to Allah with [accepted] repentance. And [they are] those who do not testify to falsehood, and when they pass near ill speech, they pass by with dignity. And those who, when reminded of the verses of their Lord, do not fall upon them deaf and blind. And those who say, “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Those will be awarded the Chamber for what they patiently endured, and they will be received therein with greetings and [words of] peace.” [25:71-75]

Ya Allah, when the world criticizes me a million times over
Ya Allah, when the world keeps telling me hurtful things
Ya Allah, when the world keeps pushing “ugly” at me.
Give me the courage to hold firm to your Deen.
Ya Allah, as long as I am beautiful to you, nothing else matters.

Ya Allah, even when everyone leaves my side, let me take comfort in the fact that
You are closer to me than my jugular vein [50:16]


(reblogged#Islamicthinking)

A reminder to self

TOUGH LOVE

your life is not a song, a story, a TV show or a movie. Your life is your life. Live it instead of playing a part in it. Don’t let yourself fall prey to ideas of romantic, sensationalist rhetoric. Life is not about love or money or fame, life is about making the right choices and coming closer to God. Recalibrate your soul towards God and stop worrying about fairy tales and fame.


(reblogged#islamicthinking)

Surah - surah pilihan

Oh, saya jumpe info ini di facebook, kat wall kawan saya, Semuga ianya memberi kemanfaatan pada kita semua……

Dikatakan :-

۞ Surah Al-Fatihah dapat memadam kemurkaan Allah SWT.

۞ Surah Yasin dapat menghilangkan rasa dahaga atau kehausan pada hari Kiamat.

۞ Surah Dukhan dapat membantu kita ketika menghadapi ujian Allah SWT pada hari kiamat.

۞ Surah Al-Waqi’ah dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa kesusahan atau fakir.

۞ Surah Al-Mulk dapat meringankan azab di dalam kubur.

۞ Surah Al-Kauthar dapat merelaikan segala perbalahan.

۞ Surah Al-Kafirun dapat menghalang kita daripada menjadi kafir ketika menghadapi kematian.

۞ Surah Al-Ikhlas dapat melindungi kita daripada menjadi golongan munafiq.

۞ Surah Al-Falq dapat menghapuskan perasaan hasad dengki.

۞ Surah An-Nas dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa penyakit was-was.

Seterusnya, bagi menangani Syaitan Durjana, dikatakan juga:-

۞ Ketika anda membawa AL-QURAN, respon syaitan ialah biasa saja, tengok je...

۞ Ketika anda membukanya, syaitan mula curiga.

۞ Ketika anda membacanya, syaitan mula gelisah.

۞ Ketika anda memahaminya, dia mula kejang.

۞ Ketika anda mengamalkan AL-QURAN, dalam kehidupan setiap hari, dia stroke....

Teruskan membaca AL-QURAN dan mengamalkannya agar syaitan terus stroke.

Selamat beramal... :)

Life as it is.

Life?
Has life been treating u bad?
Well I have learned a few things about life as I grow older... let's go straight to what I think I have learned so far; at least from my point of view lah..

1.Whenever you help anyone, never ever expect them to remember it for the rest of their life or even help u back, just be sincere when helping... so hopefully u won't get hurt whenever u think of what u have done for them...

2.Be independent; don't expect people to do things for you, u will get frustrated honey.

3.Friends are friends, they have other things in their minds too, so don't expect them to always be there for you... please understand that..and of course sometimes they also talk about you behind your back whether you like it or not, that's normal especially when they have something against u..

4.People say the truth whenever they are angry, it's just that u r not supposed to hear it that frank, it will be better when they are sane because they will be able to say it in the nicest way possible..harsh world eh? heheheh

5.Whenever you think people don't like you, probably they think u don't like them too, and I think that is because when we think people don't like us, we tend to avoid them and they; by looking at the way u r trying to avoid them will think that u don't like them so that's why it will never be better between u and them, so what can we do? don't bother about what people think of us, just treat everybody with a sincere heart! <<< i know its hard but let's try together! :)

6. Whenever u find a friend who is always afraid of this type of people or that type of people it is because they are that type of people!...well maybe this does not apply to everyone.. there are some who behave like this because they have been treated badly, oh pity them kan?


These are all that I can think of today, maybe if I get to add a few more, I'll make another entry..heheh



p/s: so the moral of the story is? Life it self is not bad, its the people dude!

MEAN MOMS

Someday when my children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates a parent,
I will tell them, as my Mean Mom told me:
‘I loved you enough to ask where you were going,
with whom, and what time you would be home.

I loved you enough to be silent and let you
discover that your new best friend was a creep.

I loved you enough to stand over you for
two hours while you cleaned your room,
a job that should have taken 15 minutes.

I loved you enough to let you see anger,
disappointment, and tears in my eyes.

Children must learn that their parents aren’t perfect..

I loved you enough to let you assume the
responsibility for your actions even when the
penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough to say
NO when I knew you would hate me for it.

Those were the most difficult battles of all.
I’m glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.
And someday when your children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.

Was your Mom mean?

I know mine was.
We had the meanest mother in the whole world!
While other kids ate candy for breakfast,
we had to have cereal, eggs, and toast.

When others had a Coca Cola and chips for lunch,
we had to eat home cooked meals.

And you can guess our mother fixed us a dinner that was
different from what other kids had, too.

Mother insisted on knowing where we were at all times.
You’d think we were convicts in a prison.

She had to know who our friends were
and what we were doing with them.
She insisted that if we said we
would be gone for an hour, we would be gone for an hour or less.

We were ashamed to admit it,
but she had the nerve to break
the Child Labor Laws by making us work.

We had to wash the dishes, make the beds,
learn to cook, vacuum the floor, do laundry,
empty the trash and all sorts of cruel
jobs.
I think she would lie awake at night
thinking of more things for us to do.

She always insisted on us telling the truth,
the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
By the time we were teenagers,
she could read our minds
and had eyes in the back of her head.
Then, life was really tough!

Mother wouldn’t let our friends just hoot at the gate
when they drove up
They had to come up to the door
so she could meet them.


Because of our mother we missed out
on lots of things other kids experienced.

None of us have ever
been caught shoplifting, vandalizing other people’s
property or ever arrested for any crime.
It was all her fault.

Now that we have left home, we are all educated, honest adults.
We are doing our best to be mean parents just like Mom was.

I think that is what’s wrong with the world today.
It just doesn’t have enough mean moms!’

PASS THIS ON TO ALL THE MEAN MOTHERS YOU KNOW.
(And Their Kids)@islamic thinking


p/s: without my mean mother, i wouldn't become what i am today...Thank God for her...

'Pelamin' Aqiqah

wo wo wo, sekarang ni bukan main.. kalau dulu org kawen je ada pelamin... sekarang ni org buat aqiqah anak pun ada 'pelamin ok'... ahkak mcm tak percaya tgk ( tau la wa tak up to date bab bab ni..hehehe ) ... hebat u... kelas la org sekarang, dulu time kite, cukur rambut baby, mak bidan balut guna kain batik je... mak dia tak pakai baju glem glem.. pakai dlm pantang je, jeles betul ahkak ok... dah la dulu masa ahkak kawen, ayah ahkak tak kasi sanding...kempunan pelamin betull tauuu...heheh... ( macam la akak kawen time dolu2, akak kawen tahun milenium ok..!)


tgk la ni gamba anak sedara ahkak aqiqah.... comel kan kan kan?

p/s :munge telor tu pun dia buatkan tauu, kalau ada sape sape yg suka, nanti boleh la mintak org tu buatkan, yg bestnya dia sanggup dtg ke seluruh malaysia... hebat betullah.....masyukkkkk...( ok, wa takde komisen dlm iklan free ini tauu)

Thank U Allah s.w.t

found this in Islamic Thinking..